Book Review

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before

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Author: Jenny Han
Series: To All the Boys I've Loved Before #1
Publisher: Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers
First Published: April 15, 2014
Genres: Clean Romance, Contemporary Romance, Young Adult
Pages: 384
Format: Paperback
Source: Purchased


What if all the crushes you ever had found out how you felt about them…all at once?

Sixteen-year-old Lara Jean Song keeps her love letters in a hatbox her mother gave her. They aren’t love letters that anyone else wrote for her; these are ones she’s written. One for every boy she’s ever loved—five in all. When she writes, she pours out her heart and soul and says all the things she would never say in real life, because her letters are for her eyes only. Until the day her secret letters are mailed, and suddenly, Lara Jean’s love life goes from imaginary to out of control.

Also in this series: P.S. I Still Love You, Always and Forever, Lara Jean
Also by this author: P.S. I Still Love You, Always and Forever, Lara Jean

My Thoughts

I had been eyeing this series for a while despite the fact that I rarely read YA contemporary romance. I picked up the boxed set on a whim because I had always been interested in the story blurb and the fact that the main character is biracial like me. If it wasn’t for the fact that I had to put the book down when my husband started tucking us in at five a.m., I would have devoured this entire book in one sitting. I am keeping this spoiler-free because I find that it is a story that is best enjoyed going in as blind as possible as I did.

“They’re not love letters in the strictest sense of the word. My letters are for when I don’t want to be in love anymore. They’re for good-bye. Because after I write my letter, I’m no longer consumed by my all-consuming love.”

The story follows a rising junior named Lara Jean, who writes letters to her crushes when she’s ready to move on. She is described as quirky, she isn’t popular but she’s also not unpopular, and she’s never had a boyfriend. Lara Jean is really close to her family, she’s privileged, and she enjoys girly hobbies like scrapbooking, baking, and knitting. In some respects, she comes off immature but I find this to be just fine given her age. A lot of readers expect her to be mature, but many high schoolers aren’t. I found myself relating to her because I was a lot like her when I was in high school. I had crushes, but I never pursued any of them, I never dated anyone at school like a lot of my friends that had boyfriends all through middle and high school. I felt inexperienced as compared to my peers, but it didn’t really bother me.

“What would you know about love, Lara Jean?”

I also really loved most of the characters, and especially the relationship that Lara Jean has with her sisters no matter how obnoxious they are to each other. The only thing that I wish would have been better developed would’ve been Lara Jean’s friendship with Chris. They’re probably the closest thing to best friends, but the friendship didn’t feel fleshed out or authentic to me. Perhaps it’ll be better with subsequent books, but I’m not counting on it.

The hook for the story is that somehow, those old good-bye crush letters are sent out, and Lara Jean finds herself confronted with all of those crushes. It is deliciously amusing and a recipe for so much drama, especially when one of those crushes would mean betraying someone close to her. While I didn’t like the pseudo-love triangle with this character, in some ways it was believable. This book has all of the frustrating drama that comes with most teen romance novels, but I didn’t find myself minding in the slightest. The chapters are short and a lot happens in each chapter, and it was nice to just turn my brain off and enjoy the ride.

About Jenny Han

Jenny Han is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of the To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before series.
She is an executive producer on all three Netflix films– To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, To All the Boys: P.S. I Still Love You, and To All the Boys: Always and Forever, Lara Jean. She is also the author of the New York Times bestselling Summer I Turned Pretty series. Her books have been published in more than thirty languages. A former librarian, Jenny earned her MFA in creative writing at the New School. She lives in Brooklyn, New York.


I’m a Filipino American blogger, historian, and lazy writer. I enjoy books, video games, anime/manga, and smoking hookah.

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  1. How would you describe yourself in high school? Outgoing when I get to know you, but also awkward and shy for sure. I have such bad anxiety so it’s a struggle.
    Have you ever had a crush on someone that a friend or family member also liked? I don’t think so!
    Did you ever date in high school, why or why not? I did! I had a thing with my friend at the time throughout middle school and into high school. He’s not out though, and we don’t talk as much as we use to. I still have feelings for him but I’m afraid it wouldn’t work out.

    Thanks so much for checking out my blog by the way! I love yours and have it bookmarked 🙂
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    1. Thank you for visiting Frederick, I will definitely be visiting yours again as well! I can relate so much about anxiety, I was the same way in high school and honestly, I haven’t changed much. I still have difficulty feeling comfortable talking to people that I see every day in my office, I worry all the time that I have a strong personality that will push people away.

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